Japan, as one of the most developed countries in Asia, is one of the most
developed countries in Asia, where many of the things have been controversial,
for example, the Japanese have been inexplicable in this regard, and many
Japanese prefer not to go on the road, One of the most recent data has led to a
number of speculation about the interest of the Japanese, and the Japanese
derailment rate was as high as the first in the world.
The affair is more difficult to accept for Chinese families, and even a lot
of people, after learning about their other spouse's derailment, are not just a
divorce, and many even use violent means to deal with the derails, and in their
minds, this is completely natural, The affair was the opposite of the other, and
it was nothing to vent with cheap flights
from tokyo to shanghai a violent means, and the country in Japan was
different because they were quite tolerant.
Now that the whole world knows a lot about cheating, then the local people in
Japan certainly know it, so many people will doubt whether the old men in Japan
are really willing to let their wives cheat, or that after seeing their wives
cheating, they will respect each other's decisions, and then continue their own
lives and maintain their families, although many people think that these
husbands in Japan are particularly tolerant of each other's decisions.? But the
truth may be more heartfelt.
After all, for a normal person, should not want to see their head wearing a
green hat, but Japan has some do not understand, the local society is more open,
even many women are legally engaged in that kind of work, among which some of
Japan's special small films are more famous all over the world, I believe
everyone has observed, so in such a society, people are undoubtedly more open to
such things.
In many Japanese families, husbands come home very late, because their work
is regarded as the first in the family. In a Japanese society where men are
inferior to women, women basically feel at ease to be a housewife, which is also
a true portrayal of many families. Although in developed societies, there are
more demands for equality between men and women, and both sides should make
money to support their families. But traditional Japanese ideas still bind many
families, and husbands who work outside become the backbone of the family.
Therefore, there will certainly be certain changes in family status. Many
women are eager to wear it when they wait at home for their husband to return,
and some Japanese areas have even more terrible traditions. It turns out that
the local tradition is that the husband must not be able to go home directly
from work. If a husband returns home on time after work, then not only does it
mean that he is a strict wife, but will be ridiculed by other colleagues in the
company.? At the same time, the wife herself will think that he is not capable
of working.
Why is this still related to lack of ability to work? It turns out that in
the Japanese view, a man must understand a certain degree of communication
skills, continue to work in the company after work, and then this is a more
powerful performance of work ability, of course, it is not necessary to work
overtime, even if a few colleagues make an appointment to drink together is also
very good, they think this belongs to the excellent communication skills, and if
no one buys a drink, It means that your position in the company may be in
jeopardy, so your wife will not be happy.
In this case, the husband will not be at home for a long time, so Japanese
wives are usually alone in vacant rooms, especially those housewives, because
they do not need to work, only need to cook a meal at home, do a little
housework, but the husband is rarely at home, a lot of physical work they can
not do, so they need the help of neighbors or other people. At this time, it is
easy to cheat.
As this is generally the case in Japanese haneda to shanghai society, cheating is
not just an accident. Generally speaking, many families may exist, and long-term
cheating husbands must know it, but most husbands can only tolerate it, because
some problems are difficult to solve, because they think the integrity of a
family is very important, if such a thing leads to the breakdown of the family.
It may make your life even lower.
At the same time, there is a very important reason why husbands cannot
disclose the truth, because if they file for divorce on the grounds of cheating,
then all their friends know that he is green, which is impossible for the
Japanese with good face, so they would rather bite their teeth to bear the
humiliation than file a divorce easily.
So the Japanese government is not as tolerant as everyone thinks it is, but
because some traditional phenomena in society make them have to put up with it.
Although their wife's cheating may not only be known by one person, but as long
as the matter is not made public, they have at least a cloth of shame on them,
and once this cloth is uncovered, the Japanese will feel very ashamed. I wonder
if people think the affair can be forgiven.
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